IT COSTS NOTHING, BUT CREATES MUCH.
IT ENRICHES THOSE WHO RECIEVE IT,
WITHOUT MUCH IMPOVERSHING THOSE WHO GIVE.
IT HAPPENS IN A FLASH,
AND THE MEMORY OF IT SOMETIMES LASTS FOREVER.
NONE ARE SO RICH, THEY CAN GET ALONG WITHOUT IT,
AND NONE SO POOR BUT ARE RICHER FOR IT’S BENIFITS.
IT CREATES HAPPINESS IN THE HOME,
FOSTERS GOODWILL IN BUSINESS,
AND IS THE COUNTERSIGN OF FRINEDS.
IT IS REST TO THE WEARY,
DAYLIGHT TO THE DISCOURAGED,
SUNSHINE TO THE SAD,
AND NATURE’S BEST ANTIDOTE FOR TROUBLE.
YET IT CANNOT BE BOUGHT, BEGGED, BORROWED OR STOLEN,
FOR IT IS SOMETHING THAT IS NO EARHTLY GOOD TO ANYONE,
UNTIL IT IS GIVEN AWAY.
AND IF IN THE COURSE OF THE DAY,
SOME OF YOUR FRIENDS
SHOULD BE TOO TIRED TO GIVE YOU A SMILE,
WHY DON’T YOU GIVE THEM ONE OF YOUR’S?
FOR NOBODY NEEDS A SMILE SO MUCH,
AS THOSE WHO HAVE NONE LEFT TO GIVE.
anonymous
Welcome to Our Journey of Faith. My blog is a place where I share the joys and trials of living a faith-filled life as the mother of an extra large (12 children) homeschooling family, and my prayer is that it brings encouragement to others to live their lives as an adventure of faith, as well.
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Friday, November 28, 2008
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Happy Thanksgiving
Thank you Lord for ...
... my most amazing husband and the 26 years we've had together
... our precious children
... Gregg & Heidi's new love for each other
... my dear Daddy, who has lived many years beyond his expecations
... good health
... financial provision with my job loss
... wisdom as we have drastically cut our spending this year
... friends
I hope that all of you are having a most blessed Thanksgiving! Despite the economy and the political landscape, we have MUCH to be thankful for.
... my most amazing husband and the 26 years we've had together
... our precious children
... Gregg & Heidi's new love for each other
... my dear Daddy, who has lived many years beyond his expecations
... good health
... financial provision with my job loss
... wisdom as we have drastically cut our spending this year
... friends
I hope that all of you are having a most blessed Thanksgiving! Despite the economy and the political landscape, we have MUCH to be thankful for.
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Family Fun & Ministry ... A Great Combination
This weekend, Papa and I have a speaking engagement. Yea! We are excited to minister at our favorite Family Camp. And, since it is a Family Camp, the kids get to go with us. We are looking forward to much family fun (with 11 of our 13 kids, and our new daughter-in law), alongside a good time of ministry. Gregg & Heidi won't have much time with us, though, because each of them are working retail, and they get to work bright and early Friday morning. Sad!
Jim will be giving two messages from the book of Moses; and I will be giving two messages on Faith and Miracles. Then, on Sunday, we have asked Carissa to share about her missions focus in Argentina.
Please pray for us as we minister. The founder of this Family Camp is our dear friend that passed away 10 days ago. His memorial service was on Sunday, so we will be ministering not only to all of the "campers" that are there for the holiday weekend, but also to a camp staff that is walking through a time of grief.
May your weekend be BLESSED!
Jim will be giving two messages from the book of Moses; and I will be giving two messages on Faith and Miracles. Then, on Sunday, we have asked Carissa to share about her missions focus in Argentina.
Please pray for us as we minister. The founder of this Family Camp is our dear friend that passed away 10 days ago. His memorial service was on Sunday, so we will be ministering not only to all of the "campers" that are there for the holiday weekend, but also to a camp staff that is walking through a time of grief.
May your weekend be BLESSED!
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Great Friends
I am so thankful, for the great friends that my teens have.
A couple of weeks ago, I took this group (8 in the back row) on a road trip. We drove 645 mies, in one day, to support their friend Hannah (bottom center), as she ran in the State Cross Country Meet.
They all went over to one of the girls' houses the evening before, to make matching t-shirts (Go, Hannah, Go!) and to bake cookies. Then, the guys came over here for an all-night movie night. (I told them they could stay up all night, as long as at least one of them stayed awake to talk to me while I drove.)
I got up at 4:00, the girls arrived at 4:15, and we were on the road by 4:30. We arrived at the meet at 10:30, just in time for Hannah's 11:00 race. She ran well, beating her last year's State time by quite a bit. We watched a few other races, and then headed home. During our 3:00 Lunch Stop, I took a power nap in the van, while the teens went into the restaurant to eat. Then ... on the road again.
Not only do I enjoy doing things for my children; but I, seriously, enjoy spending time with their friends. They are a great group of teens, who love the Lord. It's been a joy to be more involved with all of them this year during Cross Country.
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Ben's Pics
Ben loves to take pictures of scenery, with his Nikon D80.
One of his favorite locations (top pic) is from the roof of our house. It's kind of like, "Mom, can I go play on the roof?" And, no, we don't have a flat roof.
The next two were taken while I was driving down the highway at 55mph, and Ben was practically hanging out the window with his camera. Wow!
I'm excited to see where his photography takes him. He certainly has an eye for really cool pics.
One of his favorite locations (top pic) is from the roof of our house. It's kind of like, "Mom, can I go play on the roof?" And, no, we don't have a flat roof.
The next two were taken while I was driving down the highway at 55mph, and Ben was practically hanging out the window with his camera. Wow!
I'm excited to see where his photography takes him. He certainly has an eye for really cool pics.
Friday, November 21, 2008
Fun Photo Shoot
Josh and Ben asked if I would take them to the park for a Photo Shoot in their Cross Country uniforms.
Things started out quite well ... they actually stayed serious for a minute or two.
Then ... a slight silliness came in to play when Josh began hugging this stump.
Shortly after ... the mood completely deteriorated.
No, this is not where you are supposed to start the race.
Yes ... my boys have a LOT of fun together. It's been great for them to be able to be on their first sports team together this year. Josh is a Senior and Ben is a Freshman.
Things started out quite well ... they actually stayed serious for a minute or two.
Then ... a slight silliness came in to play when Josh began hugging this stump.
Shortly after ... the mood completely deteriorated.
No, this is not where you are supposed to start the race.
Yes ... my boys have a LOT of fun together. It's been great for them to be able to be on their first sports team together this year. Josh is a Senior and Ben is a Freshman.
Thursday, November 20, 2008
Playing at the Park
The boys are waiting for Sarah to come down the slide.
Would you ever let your child go out in public wearing these pants? Bad mama.
Sarah ... always smiling.
Jacob loves to go to the park.
Run, kids, run. Here comes Ben.
Sarah says, "Help!"
Elijah says, "Peace, Dude."
Would you ever let your child go out in public wearing these pants? Bad mama.
Sarah ... always smiling.
Jacob loves to go to the park.
Run, kids, run. Here comes Ben.
Sarah says, "Help!"
Elijah says, "Peace, Dude."
Tired ...
No time to post ...
today was another "Hair Day". After 9 hours and 111 yarn braids for Rachel, I'm tired and ready for bed.
Pics to follow ... soon ...
today was another "Hair Day". After 9 hours and 111 yarn braids for Rachel, I'm tired and ready for bed.
Pics to follow ... soon ...
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
WARNING: Toys Can Be Spiritually Dangerous
A Doll Promoting Islam ?
This may be old news to some of you, but since we don't watch television, everything is old news for our family.
I just watched multiple youtube video clips (see link above) about a Fischer Price doll that actually says, "Islam is the Light." This toy is NOT promoted as a Muslim toy, and Fischer Price even denys that the doll does anything other than baby talk. But ... I heard it over, and over, and over. It definitely sounds like Fischer Price is allowing some subliminal messaging (that is actually not very subliminal). While we do not ordinarily purchase talking toys, this really concerns me that toy manufacturers are being used to manipulate the minds of precious little children.
In addition to this cute little baby doll, I was shocked to discover what some Telly Tubby toys say. We've never had any Telly Tubbies, but they aren't something that I'd want in my house.
Since Christmas is right around the corner, and many of you are probably thinking through your Christmas lists, I want to encourage you to listen closely to any type of talking toy. Listen to every phrase that is said. Some of them will use 7 or 8 cute little words/phrases, and then throw in a very disturbing word or phrase. In my research, I came across words that I cannot even print her; I heard a doll say, "Satan is the King."; I heard dolls talk about guns and killing; and I heard toys speak with sexual terms.
These are not youtube videos that kids have created for "fun". These are news stories, clips shot in Target stores, etc...
Warning ... while researching this story, I had to be very careful about what videos to watch, because the subjects/words used by these dolls are also subjects used in completely vulgar youtube videos. This is not research that should be done by children or teens.
And ... before I get accused of being anti-Muslim and discriminatory ... I have no problem with a toy being made that says, "Islam is the Light." as long as the packaging clearly states that it is a Muslim toy. Can you imagine the uproar that would occur if a talking Cabbage Patch doll suddenly was heard saying, "Dear Jesus ...."?
Snopes.com says that this is "False". However, as I said, I listened to multiple dolls from multiple sources, and I believe it is "True". This post is not being written to start a debate about the validity of this claim, it is being written to encourage parents to listen clearly to the words that are spoken by their children's toys. Whether the toys companies have authorized it or not, there are toys on the market that clearly do more than just "baby babble".
This may be old news to some of you, but since we don't watch television, everything is old news for our family.
I just watched multiple youtube video clips (see link above) about a Fischer Price doll that actually says, "Islam is the Light." This toy is NOT promoted as a Muslim toy, and Fischer Price even denys that the doll does anything other than baby talk. But ... I heard it over, and over, and over. It definitely sounds like Fischer Price is allowing some subliminal messaging (that is actually not very subliminal). While we do not ordinarily purchase talking toys, this really concerns me that toy manufacturers are being used to manipulate the minds of precious little children.
In addition to this cute little baby doll, I was shocked to discover what some Telly Tubby toys say. We've never had any Telly Tubbies, but they aren't something that I'd want in my house.
Since Christmas is right around the corner, and many of you are probably thinking through your Christmas lists, I want to encourage you to listen closely to any type of talking toy. Listen to every phrase that is said. Some of them will use 7 or 8 cute little words/phrases, and then throw in a very disturbing word or phrase. In my research, I came across words that I cannot even print her; I heard a doll say, "Satan is the King."; I heard dolls talk about guns and killing; and I heard toys speak with sexual terms.
These are not youtube videos that kids have created for "fun". These are news stories, clips shot in Target stores, etc...
Warning ... while researching this story, I had to be very careful about what videos to watch, because the subjects/words used by these dolls are also subjects used in completely vulgar youtube videos. This is not research that should be done by children or teens.
And ... before I get accused of being anti-Muslim and discriminatory ... I have no problem with a toy being made that says, "Islam is the Light." as long as the packaging clearly states that it is a Muslim toy. Can you imagine the uproar that would occur if a talking Cabbage Patch doll suddenly was heard saying, "Dear Jesus ...."?
Snopes.com says that this is "False". However, as I said, I listened to multiple dolls from multiple sources, and I believe it is "True". This post is not being written to start a debate about the validity of this claim, it is being written to encourage parents to listen clearly to the words that are spoken by their children's toys. Whether the toys companies have authorized it or not, there are toys on the market that clearly do more than just "baby babble".
Monday, November 17, 2008
Why ... ???
Why, oh why ...
Did Papa and I ...
Drive 670 miles ...
Yesterday ???
A. It was a beautiful fall day for a Sunday drive.
B. We needed some alone time.
C. We hadn't had a good long conversation in awhile.
D. We wanted to go out to lunch with Cassie in Oregon,
(at the WORST Mexican Restaurant).
E. We wanted to go shopping with Cassie,
(so that Jim could buy shoes without paying sales tax).
F. We wanted to give a quick hug to the wife of our dear
friend who passed away a few days ago.
G. We wanted to attend the memorial service ...
that we had "heard" was to be held yesterday ...
that is actually planned for next week ...
H. All of the Above
Yes ... we drove 670 miles to attend a Memorial Service ... that didn't happen.
When we pulled into the Retreat Center where the service was to be held, there were no cars in sight. While we did arrive early, I knew that this was not a good sign. The service is expected to be quite large. Jim looked at me with one of "those looks" and said, "Are you SURE it is today?" "Yes. I read the website last night, and double checked it this morning before we left."
After our Saturday night company left at almost midnight, I had gone into the office to check my emails. I then realized that I hadn't checked the update blog for our friend Allan, to find out when the services were planned for. So, a quick check told me that the services were to be held at 3:00 the next day. Yikes! We would have to leave by 7:30 a.m., in order to make it. I hurried in to tell Jim before he fell asleep. I then sent off a quick email to Cassie, to see if she would like to join us (since it was only 120 mile drive each way for her). We got up at 6:30, checked the blog update again at 7:00 (to make SURE we had the right day and time), and we were on the road at 7:15.
After arriving at the retreat center, and using the restroom, Eunice (Allan's wife) found us. She had seen our car, and wondered who was in the Main Lodge. When she saw it was us, she immediately knew what had happened, and she felt HORRIBLE. (The update blog had the incorrect information. The mistake was caught at 7:30 am and immediately changed, but we were already on our way.) We smiled, and told her it was a nice day for a drive (which it was). Her son and daughter-in-law weren't around, as they had gone out to lunch with friends. So, we couldn't even visit with them. We gave Eunice a quick hug, jumped back in the car, and headed ... not towards home, but towards Cassie's ... we knew she was on the way and we decided we'd just drive to find her. (Yes, we all have cell phones, but there is no reception up in the mountains where we were.) Just a little ways down the road, Cassie came along and we flagged her over. I jumped into her car, and we headed 20 minutes to town for lunch. After a good visit (and a bad lunch), we decided to drive another 20 minutes to an outlet mall, where Papa could buy some shoes. Both of those short drives were headed back in the direction that we needed to go, but further away from Cassie's.
After a fun afternoon with our dear daughter, we headed north again, for another 6 hours of visiting.
The funniest thing ... when Jim drives long distance, I usually sleep for awhile (especially after a short night like Saturday night). But, since it turned out that our goal for the day was just to spend time with each other (NOT to attend the Memorial Service), I stayed awake the whole time so that we could make sure and talk about everything we needed to talk about.
Another funny ... while Jim and I usually trade off with the driving duties throughout the day, Jim was determined to drive the whole way since I have driven several thousand miles in the last few weeks without him. I volunteered to drive several times, but he declined my offer. Then, a little over an hour from home (after he'd driven almost 600 miles) he finally relinquished the wheel.
We, seriously, did have a good day. While we were very disappointed that we couldn't attend the service, we enjoyed our unexpected chat time together, and we always enjoy our Cassie Time. The biggest disappointment is that we will NOT be able to attend the service next week. We would have attended if we hadn't driven down yesterday. So, we are very sad that we will not be able to join the family next Sunday, and that we will not be able to see the MANY friends that we were looking forward to seeing. Sad! The main reason that we will not be able to drive down next Sunday, is that we will be driving down there with the family just 2 days later, to spend Thanksgiving at the retreat center. So, on Sunday, we will be getting ready for Tuesday's trip.
While we usually go to Oregon 2-3 times per year ... when we go for Thanksgiving that will be my 3rd time in a month. (Remember ... I just went down to move Miss Heidi to Washington.) Crazy!
Knowing that I've driven an inordinate amount of miles recently, I just did some calculations. Since October 11th (just 5 weeks) I have driven over 3100 miles in 7 one-day trips. And, this was the first trip that Jim has joined me on. So, I have driven over 2,500 miles of it myself (with children) ... and, I have not been at home all of those days to spend time with my husband. (With 7 one-day trips, I have actually been gone for one week of the five weeks. Weird!) Therefore, this trip was extra special.
Guess this is one more answer to my questions, "What have I been doing with my life? Why do I feel like I haven't accomplished anything?"
Did Papa and I ...
Drive 670 miles ...
Yesterday ???
A. It was a beautiful fall day for a Sunday drive.
B. We needed some alone time.
C. We hadn't had a good long conversation in awhile.
D. We wanted to go out to lunch with Cassie in Oregon,
(at the WORST Mexican Restaurant).
E. We wanted to go shopping with Cassie,
(so that Jim could buy shoes without paying sales tax).
F. We wanted to give a quick hug to the wife of our dear
friend who passed away a few days ago.
G. We wanted to attend the memorial service ...
that we had "heard" was to be held yesterday ...
that is actually planned for next week ...
H. All of the Above
Yes ... we drove 670 miles to attend a Memorial Service ... that didn't happen.
When we pulled into the Retreat Center where the service was to be held, there were no cars in sight. While we did arrive early, I knew that this was not a good sign. The service is expected to be quite large. Jim looked at me with one of "those looks" and said, "Are you SURE it is today?" "Yes. I read the website last night, and double checked it this morning before we left."
After our Saturday night company left at almost midnight, I had gone into the office to check my emails. I then realized that I hadn't checked the update blog for our friend Allan, to find out when the services were planned for. So, a quick check told me that the services were to be held at 3:00 the next day. Yikes! We would have to leave by 7:30 a.m., in order to make it. I hurried in to tell Jim before he fell asleep. I then sent off a quick email to Cassie, to see if she would like to join us (since it was only 120 mile drive each way for her). We got up at 6:30, checked the blog update again at 7:00 (to make SURE we had the right day and time), and we were on the road at 7:15.
After arriving at the retreat center, and using the restroom, Eunice (Allan's wife) found us. She had seen our car, and wondered who was in the Main Lodge. When she saw it was us, she immediately knew what had happened, and she felt HORRIBLE. (The update blog had the incorrect information. The mistake was caught at 7:30 am and immediately changed, but we were already on our way.) We smiled, and told her it was a nice day for a drive (which it was). Her son and daughter-in-law weren't around, as they had gone out to lunch with friends. So, we couldn't even visit with them. We gave Eunice a quick hug, jumped back in the car, and headed ... not towards home, but towards Cassie's ... we knew she was on the way and we decided we'd just drive to find her. (Yes, we all have cell phones, but there is no reception up in the mountains where we were.) Just a little ways down the road, Cassie came along and we flagged her over. I jumped into her car, and we headed 20 minutes to town for lunch. After a good visit (and a bad lunch), we decided to drive another 20 minutes to an outlet mall, where Papa could buy some shoes. Both of those short drives were headed back in the direction that we needed to go, but further away from Cassie's.
After a fun afternoon with our dear daughter, we headed north again, for another 6 hours of visiting.
The funniest thing ... when Jim drives long distance, I usually sleep for awhile (especially after a short night like Saturday night). But, since it turned out that our goal for the day was just to spend time with each other (NOT to attend the Memorial Service), I stayed awake the whole time so that we could make sure and talk about everything we needed to talk about.
Another funny ... while Jim and I usually trade off with the driving duties throughout the day, Jim was determined to drive the whole way since I have driven several thousand miles in the last few weeks without him. I volunteered to drive several times, but he declined my offer. Then, a little over an hour from home (after he'd driven almost 600 miles) he finally relinquished the wheel.
We, seriously, did have a good day. While we were very disappointed that we couldn't attend the service, we enjoyed our unexpected chat time together, and we always enjoy our Cassie Time. The biggest disappointment is that we will NOT be able to attend the service next week. We would have attended if we hadn't driven down yesterday. So, we are very sad that we will not be able to join the family next Sunday, and that we will not be able to see the MANY friends that we were looking forward to seeing. Sad! The main reason that we will not be able to drive down next Sunday, is that we will be driving down there with the family just 2 days later, to spend Thanksgiving at the retreat center. So, on Sunday, we will be getting ready for Tuesday's trip.
While we usually go to Oregon 2-3 times per year ... when we go for Thanksgiving that will be my 3rd time in a month. (Remember ... I just went down to move Miss Heidi to Washington.) Crazy!
Knowing that I've driven an inordinate amount of miles recently, I just did some calculations. Since October 11th (just 5 weeks) I have driven over 3100 miles in 7 one-day trips. And, this was the first trip that Jim has joined me on. So, I have driven over 2,500 miles of it myself (with children) ... and, I have not been at home all of those days to spend time with my husband. (With 7 one-day trips, I have actually been gone for one week of the five weeks. Weird!) Therefore, this trip was extra special.
Guess this is one more answer to my questions, "What have I been doing with my life? Why do I feel like I haven't accomplished anything?"
Saturday, November 15, 2008
A Funny Comment
A cousin of mine sent an email after reading my blog post 2 days ago. I had to laugh at her comment:
I loved your comment "my life seems so busy, but I can't really explain with what". Read your blogs! I wonder how you have time to draw a breath! Eight hours doing one little girl's hair! And that is just the tip of the Laurel D. iceberg.
Okay ... so I know what I am busy with ... I just don't know if there is supposed to be MORE right now ...
I loved your comment "my life seems so busy, but I can't really explain with what". Read your blogs! I wonder how you have time to draw a breath! Eight hours doing one little girl's hair! And that is just the tip of the Laurel D. iceberg.
Okay ... so I know what I am busy with ... I just don't know if there is supposed to be MORE right now ...
Ministry ... Not Always What You Think It Will Look Like
Yesterday ... I wondered where my ministry was, and what it should look like.
I KNOW that my husband and children are my primary ministry, and I rejoice in that ... but I also don't want to become closed to other ministry opportunities.
Today ...
... I received several emails confirming that God is definitely using me in the blogging world, to bring encouragement. This IS a part of my ministry (even if I never meet those that I minister to).
... a close friend passed away. He was very much an "adopted Grandpa" to our children, for the past 18 years. Now, I process how I can minister to his family (who have all become extended family to us). They don't live close by, but I so want to DO something for them.
... one of my "adopted" young adult children, shared that she needs me. She was in Africa from January - August. When she came back, my older girls were all gone. So, while she needed us, she didn't quite know how to let us know that. Since Carissa is home for a visit, Miss Kati spent the day with Carissa (and, thus, dinner and a movie with our family). Carissa fell asleep during the movie (exhausted from jet lag), so I got to drive Kati home. For the past 3 months, I have known that "I should call Kati", but I haven't done it. Tonight ... I had to apologize. (So glad my Daddy taught me how.)
... a friend emailed and invited me out for coffee (yea ... an adult conversation). She shared why she has pulled away from her close friendships, and told me that she realized that she does need her friends.
... while I still pray that my writing and speaking ministry will "take off" and "do great things for the Lord" ... I also know that God IS using me, right where He has me ... here at home ... at the coffee shop ... in the blogging world ... with friends that don't live close by ....
Thank You Lord!
I KNOW that my husband and children are my primary ministry, and I rejoice in that ... but I also don't want to become closed to other ministry opportunities.
Today ...
... I received several emails confirming that God is definitely using me in the blogging world, to bring encouragement. This IS a part of my ministry (even if I never meet those that I minister to).
... a close friend passed away. He was very much an "adopted Grandpa" to our children, for the past 18 years. Now, I process how I can minister to his family (who have all become extended family to us). They don't live close by, but I so want to DO something for them.
... one of my "adopted" young adult children, shared that she needs me. She was in Africa from January - August. When she came back, my older girls were all gone. So, while she needed us, she didn't quite know how to let us know that. Since Carissa is home for a visit, Miss Kati spent the day with Carissa (and, thus, dinner and a movie with our family). Carissa fell asleep during the movie (exhausted from jet lag), so I got to drive Kati home. For the past 3 months, I have known that "I should call Kati", but I haven't done it. Tonight ... I had to apologize. (So glad my Daddy taught me how.)
... a friend emailed and invited me out for coffee (yea ... an adult conversation). She shared why she has pulled away from her close friendships, and told me that she realized that she does need her friends.
... while I still pray that my writing and speaking ministry will "take off" and "do great things for the Lord" ... I also know that God IS using me, right where He has me ... here at home ... at the coffee shop ... in the blogging world ... with friends that don't live close by ....
Thank You Lord!
Friday, November 14, 2008
Life ... Time ... Friends ... Ministry ...
Lately ...
Life seems to be speeding along, out of control ...
(with LOTS of traveling every weekend).
At the same time, life often seems to be "on hold" ...
(with nothing on my calendar Monday-Friday).
* * * * * * * * * *
I ran into an old friend, who said,
"I've wanted to stop by, but know you are so busy."
I responded,
"Busy? I am so NOT busy. I have NOTHING on my calendar.
I can go days or weeks without an adult conversation, seriously, (besides Papa and my young adult children)."
I haven't put anything on my calendar in 6 weeks.
I seem to have "No Life" and very few friends, since I lost my job.
* * * * * * * * * *
No one can imagine how lonely I might be ...
when completely surrounded by people all day every day.
I LOVE my children, and treasure this time with them.
But, I MISS all of my "friends" from work/school.
* * * * * * * * * *
Which leads me to my most often ponderings ...
... what is a friend?
... how can you lose all of your friends,
just by losing your job?
... do I even have the energy to try to find new friends
(for myself or my children)?
... can our family survive without any friends in our daily lives?
(we have GREAT friends that live 150+ miles away)
* * * * * * * * * *
I want to be "DOING" BIG things ... writing & speaking
Yet, I seem to be busy "doing" little things ...
driving, school work, driving, school work,
(oh yes, and cooking, cleaning, cooking, cleaning)
I want to do ALL that God has called me to.
I don't want to waste any of the days He has given me.
I want to use His time wisely.
About 6 weeks ago I wrote a post on TIME ...
Now, I wonder if I am using this time for His best.
* * * * * * * * * *
I talked to my Daddy today ...
... he asked about my speaking and writing.
... "No ... I haven't done much yet."
(Does that mean I am wasting my time?)
... he asked what I'd been busy with.
... "cross-country and homeschooling"
(my life seems so busy, but I can't really explain with what)
* * * * * * * * * *
When I was working full-time, I was also homeschooling and I was actively involved as a baseball mom, track mom, cross-country mom. Now that I'm not "working", it seems that I should be accomplishing so much more.
However ... I hardly take into account that I did add 3 African children to the mix this year. And, they take a LOT of homeschooling and parenting time. (I'm NOT complaining ... just trying to remind myself.) Not to mention the 4 other children that I am also homeschooling and mothering.
Was I expecting too much of myself?
Or, am I not expecting enough of myself?
I "expected" to be in full swing with my Journey of Faith ministry ...
... I expected to have all of my messages re-recorded.
... I expected to have new brochures and business cards.
... I expected to have magazine articles sent off.
... I expected to have speaking engagements lined up.
... I feel like I haven't done all that God has called me to,
when people ask about the ministry, and I have to say,
"I haven't done much yet."
Where is the balance to be found?
How often should I lock myself in my office
to "work" on my ministry?
How often should I lock my office door
to "work" on my mothering?
I am a late-night person.
I enjoy my quiet house after midnight.
I get a lot of "work" done at 2:00 a.m.
Yet ... I need my sleep in order to stay healthy.
And ... my children need a bright-eyed mommy.
So ... I am processing and praying ...
"Lord, may Your will be done in my life. Not my will, but Yours. May You receive ALL the glory ... whether from my ministry or my mothering (or both). Give me wisdom ... give me balance ... and let Your light shine through my stained-glass windows. Whether the world looks through those windows, or just my children, please oh Lord ... let Your light shine."
Life seems to be speeding along, out of control ...
(with LOTS of traveling every weekend).
At the same time, life often seems to be "on hold" ...
(with nothing on my calendar Monday-Friday).
* * * * * * * * * *
I ran into an old friend, who said,
"I've wanted to stop by, but know you are so busy."
I responded,
"Busy? I am so NOT busy. I have NOTHING on my calendar.
I can go days or weeks without an adult conversation, seriously, (besides Papa and my young adult children)."
I haven't put anything on my calendar in 6 weeks.
I seem to have "No Life" and very few friends, since I lost my job.
* * * * * * * * * *
No one can imagine how lonely I might be ...
when completely surrounded by people all day every day.
I LOVE my children, and treasure this time with them.
But, I MISS all of my "friends" from work/school.
* * * * * * * * * *
Which leads me to my most often ponderings ...
... what is a friend?
... how can you lose all of your friends,
just by losing your job?
... do I even have the energy to try to find new friends
(for myself or my children)?
... can our family survive without any friends in our daily lives?
(we have GREAT friends that live 150+ miles away)
* * * * * * * * * *
I want to be "DOING" BIG things ... writing & speaking
Yet, I seem to be busy "doing" little things ...
driving, school work, driving, school work,
(oh yes, and cooking, cleaning, cooking, cleaning)
I want to do ALL that God has called me to.
I don't want to waste any of the days He has given me.
I want to use His time wisely.
About 6 weeks ago I wrote a post on TIME ...
Now, I wonder if I am using this time for His best.
* * * * * * * * * *
I talked to my Daddy today ...
... he asked about my speaking and writing.
... "No ... I haven't done much yet."
(Does that mean I am wasting my time?)
... he asked what I'd been busy with.
... "cross-country and homeschooling"
(my life seems so busy, but I can't really explain with what)
* * * * * * * * * *
When I was working full-time, I was also homeschooling and I was actively involved as a baseball mom, track mom, cross-country mom. Now that I'm not "working", it seems that I should be accomplishing so much more.
However ... I hardly take into account that I did add 3 African children to the mix this year. And, they take a LOT of homeschooling and parenting time. (I'm NOT complaining ... just trying to remind myself.) Not to mention the 4 other children that I am also homeschooling and mothering.
Was I expecting too much of myself?
Or, am I not expecting enough of myself?
I "expected" to be in full swing with my Journey of Faith ministry ...
... I expected to have all of my messages re-recorded.
... I expected to have new brochures and business cards.
... I expected to have magazine articles sent off.
... I expected to have speaking engagements lined up.
... I feel like I haven't done all that God has called me to,
when people ask about the ministry, and I have to say,
"I haven't done much yet."
Where is the balance to be found?
How often should I lock myself in my office
to "work" on my ministry?
How often should I lock my office door
to "work" on my mothering?
I am a late-night person.
I enjoy my quiet house after midnight.
I get a lot of "work" done at 2:00 a.m.
Yet ... I need my sleep in order to stay healthy.
And ... my children need a bright-eyed mommy.
So ... I am processing and praying ...
"Lord, may Your will be done in my life. Not my will, but Yours. May You receive ALL the glory ... whether from my ministry or my mothering (or both). Give me wisdom ... give me balance ... and let Your light shine through my stained-glass windows. Whether the world looks through those windows, or just my children, please oh Lord ... let Your light shine."
Stained Glass Windows
"People are like stained-glass windows ...
They sparkle and shine when the sun is out,
but when the darkness sets in,
their true beauty is revealed
only if their light is from within."
Elizabeth Kubler Ross
I want my life to sparkle and shine ...
I want others to see the beauty of Christ revealed in my life ...
Sometimes, it seems as if my window panes are smudged ...
Sometimes, it seems as if the light is faint, the bulbs are burned out ...
Sometimes, I know the light is burning bright, but wonder why others can't see it ...
They sparkle and shine when the sun is out,
but when the darkness sets in,
their true beauty is revealed
only if their light is from within."
Elizabeth Kubler Ross
I want my life to sparkle and shine ...
I want others to see the beauty of Christ revealed in my life ...
Sometimes, it seems as if my window panes are smudged ...
Sometimes, it seems as if the light is faint, the bulbs are burned out ...
Sometimes, I know the light is burning bright, but wonder why others can't see it ...
Thursday, November 13, 2008
The Towel Dilemma
Last night, while shopping at Wal-Mart, the clerk commented, "You must own a hotel or something." (Well ... come to think of it ... it would be nice to make some money off of my "rooming house".)
While I have learned a lot of household organizational tricks over the years, sometimes I come across one and say, "Why didn't I ever think of that???!!!" I had one of those moments this past week while reading Always Room For One More. Heather has 9 children at home, that share 1 bathroom, and she posted pics with some of the large family tricks she has come up with. We, also, have 9 children at home right now, sharing 1 1/2 baths. So ... Heather's tips and tricks caught my eye.
At our house ... we have a major towel dilemma. No matter how many hooks we put up ... no matter how many times we tell the children that they need to "use your towel more than once" ... we ALWAYS have towels on the floor and piles of towels in the laundry room. And, I am TIRED of washing a load of towels practically every day.
Heather's post shows a picture of nicely hung towels in a bedroom, and nicely stacked towels in a linen closet. All of her towels are a beautiful white, with nicely embroidered names of each child. While ... we won't be putting the towels in the bedrooms ... we don't have a linen closet ... and we can't afford to get all of our children's names embroidered on their own towels (their towels were a very thoughtful gift from two friends) ... her post did inspire me.
We do have enough towel hooks (between the two baths) ... we store our towels under Papa and Mama's bed ... and we could squeeze enough money out of this month's budget for 16 inexpensive Wal-mart towels and a set of Fabric Markers.
So ... the New Plan ... each child is going to get two new towels with their names on them (I'll probably even get creative with some fun designs with the Fabric Markers). Every week each child will be given 1 towel, while the other towels are "put away". All random, old towels will be banned from use except in the case of flooding (clogged toilets, etc...) or another dirty job. They will no longer be available for daily baths. At the end of the week, Mama will collect the used towel for the week, and replace it with a fresh towel.
Papa and Mama will also certainly come up with a consequence for "towels on the floor". When using old, random towels, it was way too easy to say, "It's not mine." However, with new bright white towels with names ... it will be quite difficult to try to blame someone else.
I'll post pics when I finish the creative design project ... I just thought this tip was too good to not pass along right away.
While I have learned a lot of household organizational tricks over the years, sometimes I come across one and say, "Why didn't I ever think of that???!!!" I had one of those moments this past week while reading Always Room For One More. Heather has 9 children at home, that share 1 bathroom, and she posted pics with some of the large family tricks she has come up with. We, also, have 9 children at home right now, sharing 1 1/2 baths. So ... Heather's tips and tricks caught my eye.
At our house ... we have a major towel dilemma. No matter how many hooks we put up ... no matter how many times we tell the children that they need to "use your towel more than once" ... we ALWAYS have towels on the floor and piles of towels in the laundry room. And, I am TIRED of washing a load of towels practically every day.
Heather's post shows a picture of nicely hung towels in a bedroom, and nicely stacked towels in a linen closet. All of her towels are a beautiful white, with nicely embroidered names of each child. While ... we won't be putting the towels in the bedrooms ... we don't have a linen closet ... and we can't afford to get all of our children's names embroidered on their own towels (their towels were a very thoughtful gift from two friends) ... her post did inspire me.
We do have enough towel hooks (between the two baths) ... we store our towels under Papa and Mama's bed ... and we could squeeze enough money out of this month's budget for 16 inexpensive Wal-mart towels and a set of Fabric Markers.
So ... the New Plan ... each child is going to get two new towels with their names on them (I'll probably even get creative with some fun designs with the Fabric Markers). Every week each child will be given 1 towel, while the other towels are "put away". All random, old towels will be banned from use except in the case of flooding (clogged toilets, etc...) or another dirty job. They will no longer be available for daily baths. At the end of the week, Mama will collect the used towel for the week, and replace it with a fresh towel.
Papa and Mama will also certainly come up with a consequence for "towels on the floor". When using old, random towels, it was way too easy to say, "It's not mine." However, with new bright white towels with names ... it will be quite difficult to try to blame someone else.
I'll post pics when I finish the creative design project ... I just thought this tip was too good to not pass along right away.
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Big Sis Is Coming Home
Tomorrow ... Big Sister Carissa is coming home for a visit. Yea! While I just saw her in September, the rest of the family hasn't seen her since April 4th. Seven months is a looong time to be missing the big sis.
I think Elijah has the hardest time with his older siblings being gone ... every time he talks to any of them on the phone he says, "WHEN are you coming home? Will you live at home then?" Christmas will be especially hard, with 3 of the big kids gone this year (and it being our first Christmas with our 3 new kids). Lindsey is in the middle of her 6 month time in Germany, and Jeremiah won't be home until June (after 10 months in Jordan). It is so hard to explain to the little ones ... how, why, and where their brothers and sisters are and when they will be home. "Will he/she be home for my birthday? Will they be home when I play baseball?"
We brought our 3 kids home from Ghana in March (while Gregg was still serving in Iraq). By the time Gregg got home, Carissa had left. Shortly thereafter, Jeremiah and Lindsey headed out on their adventures. So, next summer, when we finally get everyone home for our first Big Fat Greek Wedding, it will have been 2 years since we were all together (and the first time we will have been together with the new kids ... and they will have been home for 16 months by that time). This is VERY sad for the mama that LOVES Family Pictures. Looks like we get to send out another collage for our Family Christmas Pic. Very sad!
I think Elijah has the hardest time with his older siblings being gone ... every time he talks to any of them on the phone he says, "WHEN are you coming home? Will you live at home then?" Christmas will be especially hard, with 3 of the big kids gone this year (and it being our first Christmas with our 3 new kids). Lindsey is in the middle of her 6 month time in Germany, and Jeremiah won't be home until June (after 10 months in Jordan). It is so hard to explain to the little ones ... how, why, and where their brothers and sisters are and when they will be home. "Will he/she be home for my birthday? Will they be home when I play baseball?"
We brought our 3 kids home from Ghana in March (while Gregg was still serving in Iraq). By the time Gregg got home, Carissa had left. Shortly thereafter, Jeremiah and Lindsey headed out on their adventures. So, next summer, when we finally get everyone home for our first Big Fat Greek Wedding, it will have been 2 years since we were all together (and the first time we will have been together with the new kids ... and they will have been home for 16 months by that time). This is VERY sad for the mama that LOVES Family Pictures. Looks like we get to send out another collage for our Family Christmas Pic. Very sad!
Another Hair Day
My fingers feel like they're about to fall off ... so I can't do much blogging tonight. But, we had another hair day today.
It has actually been 11 weeks since I did the girls' yarn braid extensions, and they have really looked good until about a week ago. So, they lasted a lot longer than I expected.
Today, I put 98 yarn braid extensions into Sarah's hair (in only 8 hours), and plan to do Rachel's next week (it is still looking good, after 11 weeks). And, we finally got to put beads in their braids, because I found a tool that worked. I have not been able to find an actual beading tool, but someone recommended a sewing/quilting tool and sent me a picture of it. So, this week, I went around town to 4 different stores, with my picture of the un-named sewing tool. And ... just before the fabric store closed at 9:00 last night, I finally found the tool. Whew! Hosanna was at home taking out all of Sarah's braids, so I was really hoping to find the tool.
I'll post pics tomorrow. After sitting on a stool for 8+ hours, Sarah was ready for bed when we finished just before 10:00 tonight.
It has actually been 11 weeks since I did the girls' yarn braid extensions, and they have really looked good until about a week ago. So, they lasted a lot longer than I expected.
Today, I put 98 yarn braid extensions into Sarah's hair (in only 8 hours), and plan to do Rachel's next week (it is still looking good, after 11 weeks). And, we finally got to put beads in their braids, because I found a tool that worked. I have not been able to find an actual beading tool, but someone recommended a sewing/quilting tool and sent me a picture of it. So, this week, I went around town to 4 different stores, with my picture of the un-named sewing tool. And ... just before the fabric store closed at 9:00 last night, I finally found the tool. Whew! Hosanna was at home taking out all of Sarah's braids, so I was really hoping to find the tool.
I'll post pics tomorrow. After sitting on a stool for 8+ hours, Sarah was ready for bed when we finished just before 10:00 tonight.
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
A New Season of Parenting
After 24 years of parenting, we have seen a lot of "seasons" and "phases" ... but, now ... it is time to discover a whole new side of parenting ... becoming ... "In-Laws" ...
You may remember my Modern Fairy Tale post last summer, and my introduction of Miss Heidi ...
You may have noticed that Miss Heidi's picture appeared on our blog header a week or so ago ...
You may remember that I drove to Oregon to move Miss Heidi to Washington 12 days ago ...
Yesterday, Miss Heidi's sweet parents flew up from California to visit Heidi's new town, and to meet the future ... In-Laws ...
Today ... we toured a mansion ... visited a park on the waterfront with a rental facility ... shopped for a wedding dress ... and went out to lunch with Gregg, Heidi, and the ... In-Laws ... What fun!!!
Heidi has assured me that she wants and needs my help with the wedding.
I have assured Heidi that I definitely don't want to become the Dreaded, Domineering, Mother-In-Law.
Yes ... we are THRILLED to be entering this new phase of parenting. Fun! Fun! Fun!
You may remember my Modern Fairy Tale post last summer, and my introduction of Miss Heidi ...
You may have noticed that Miss Heidi's picture appeared on our blog header a week or so ago ...
You may remember that I drove to Oregon to move Miss Heidi to Washington 12 days ago ...
Yesterday, Miss Heidi's sweet parents flew up from California to visit Heidi's new town, and to meet the future ... In-Laws ...
Today ... we toured a mansion ... visited a park on the waterfront with a rental facility ... shopped for a wedding dress ... and went out to lunch with Gregg, Heidi, and the ... In-Laws ... What fun!!!
Heidi has assured me that she wants and needs my help with the wedding.
I have assured Heidi that I definitely don't want to become the Dreaded, Domineering, Mother-In-Law.
Yes ... we are THRILLED to be entering this new phase of parenting. Fun! Fun! Fun!
Sunday, November 9, 2008
Children are Pure Gold
I "stole" this 20 second video off of Misha's Blog. I LOVE it!
Treasures of Gold
Have you visited Misha's Blog recently? When I first posted his information, they had raised $700 for his adoption. Now, they have over $1600. Praise God! It is so exciting to see how the Lord is using the blogging world to support this family.
Treasures of Gold
Have you visited Misha's Blog recently? When I first posted his information, they had raised $700 for his adoption. Now, they have over $1600. Praise God! It is so exciting to see how the Lord is using the blogging world to support this family.
Friday, November 7, 2008
Things I Learned from My Daddy
After writing last night's post, I lay in bed for a long time thinking about the situation. While I know my heartfelt intentions; and God knows my heart; I so wanted you, my readers, to hear my heart ... my sincerest apologies, my desire for open and honest communication, and my complete acceptance of other's viewpoints. These are three very important things that I learned from my dear Daddy.
When I was a junior in high school, the secretary phoned my classroom and asked that I come directly to the office. I went, with absolutely no idea why they would need to talk to me. Upon arriving in the school office, I was told that I had a phone call. It was 11:00 a.m., and my Daddy was telephoning me to apologize. We had had a slight disagreement before school, and my Daddy didn't want either of us to go through the day with hard feelings towards each other. He wanted to make sure that I knew how sorry he was for what he had said, and he wanted me to know of his complete love for me. He couldn't wait until I came home from school, to let me know.
He taught me several important lessons that day ...
#1 How very important an apology is. Seriously, the situation was one of those, "no big deals" and I wasn't at all expecting an apology, much less in the middle of my school day. But ... it was important for Daddy to clear the air immediately.
One of the main purposes of last night's blog post ... to apologize to those bloggers that I had offended, with certainly no idea that I would cause further offense.
#2 How important it is for parents to apologize to their children. There are many adults who might find it important to apologize to their friends for something; but, somehow, they see "weakness" in apologizing to their children.
Just a few days ago, I had to pull one of my children aside and make a sincere apology.
#3 That it is important to apologize for the "little things", before they turn into "big things".
* * * * *
Less than a year after that apology situation, there was a situation at our house that caused me to need to move out. I was just starting the beginning of my Senior year in high school, and some close family friends invited me to come live with them for the year. My Daddy, while he loved me and wanted me at home, knew and understood that it was time for me to leave. But, he did not pull away and sulk about my leaving. No, he actually paid this family a small monthly room and board fee (which they did not ask for), and he took me out to dinner every week to make sure that we kept the lines of communication open.
#1 I learned how important it is to have regular, open, and honest communication.
"Communication" is probably the #1 key component of my marriage and my parenting. I don't want anything misconstrued. I don't want misunderstandings to simmer until they turn into boiling bitterness. (I have seen firsthand, with a family member, the near-fatal consequences of a bitter spirit. 70+ years of hatred has nearly ruined this person's heart ... emotionally, spiritually, and physically.)
* * * * *
One very interesting thing about my weekly dinner dates with Daddy ... we disagreed on nearly every important issue. We couldn't have been further from each other in regards to matters of religion and politics. Yet, we were able to sit across from each other every week and say, "I believe ________." "Well, interesting, because I believe __________." To this very day, neither of us have convinced the other to change their positions (because that wasn't our intent). Yet we have fully loved and accepted each other, despite our differences.
My Daddy is the most liberal of liberal when it comes to politics. He proudly told my children a few years ago that, "Bill Clinton was the best president this country has ever had." We all listened and smiled. He knew we didn't agree, but he knew we weren't there to debate him either. My Daddy thinks same-sex marriage is fine. My Daddy thinks it's okay to ordain homosexual pastors. My Daddy believes every religion is equal. He knows that we don't agree; but he knows that we love and respect him more than anything.
My Daddy doesn't agree with our religious viewpoints either. He does not believe that the Bible is the inerrant Word of God. He believes it is a good book, written by good men. My Daddy doesn't believe in the Virgin Birth of Jesus Christ (this was one of our high school dinner-date discussions). He believes that Jesus was a good man that walked on this earth. But ... I love my Daddy and pray that my Daddy will spend eternity in heaven.
The funniest thing happened 8 years ago ... my Daddy got married after being single for 25 years, and he married "someone just like me" as my Daddy so laughingly tells everyone. His dear wife (and most of her 11 children and 42 grandchildren) is a conservative Christian. So, she completely disagrees with him on religion and politics. But ... she loves him dearly, and respects him fully.
Yes ... I learned from my Daddy ...
... how important an apology is.
... how important open, honest communication is.
... how to discuss our political and religious viewpoints with complete respect, even when our beliefs differ.
I hope and pray that my children are also learning these things from me. I hope that I can be half the amazing person that my Daddy is. I don't think he has a mean, bitter, ornery, bone in his body. He truly knows how to love everyone, and won't say a negative word against anyone. Thanks Daddy ... for being such an example to me.
One more thing ... being that I am in my mid-fourties, most people would expect my Daddy to be mid-sixties to early-seventies. However, my Daddy didn't get married and have children until he was in his fourties. When I was in high school (having my weekly date nights), my Daddy was already 65. Now ... Daddy is 90 and he continues to be a pillar and an example for me and my family. His heart is strong ... because he has protected it from the disease of anger and bitterness. I hope we can all learn a few things from my dear Daddy.
When I was a junior in high school, the secretary phoned my classroom and asked that I come directly to the office. I went, with absolutely no idea why they would need to talk to me. Upon arriving in the school office, I was told that I had a phone call. It was 11:00 a.m., and my Daddy was telephoning me to apologize. We had had a slight disagreement before school, and my Daddy didn't want either of us to go through the day with hard feelings towards each other. He wanted to make sure that I knew how sorry he was for what he had said, and he wanted me to know of his complete love for me. He couldn't wait until I came home from school, to let me know.
He taught me several important lessons that day ...
#1 How very important an apology is. Seriously, the situation was one of those, "no big deals" and I wasn't at all expecting an apology, much less in the middle of my school day. But ... it was important for Daddy to clear the air immediately.
One of the main purposes of last night's blog post ... to apologize to those bloggers that I had offended, with certainly no idea that I would cause further offense.
#2 How important it is for parents to apologize to their children. There are many adults who might find it important to apologize to their friends for something; but, somehow, they see "weakness" in apologizing to their children.
Just a few days ago, I had to pull one of my children aside and make a sincere apology.
#3 That it is important to apologize for the "little things", before they turn into "big things".
* * * * *
Less than a year after that apology situation, there was a situation at our house that caused me to need to move out. I was just starting the beginning of my Senior year in high school, and some close family friends invited me to come live with them for the year. My Daddy, while he loved me and wanted me at home, knew and understood that it was time for me to leave. But, he did not pull away and sulk about my leaving. No, he actually paid this family a small monthly room and board fee (which they did not ask for), and he took me out to dinner every week to make sure that we kept the lines of communication open.
#1 I learned how important it is to have regular, open, and honest communication.
"Communication" is probably the #1 key component of my marriage and my parenting. I don't want anything misconstrued. I don't want misunderstandings to simmer until they turn into boiling bitterness. (I have seen firsthand, with a family member, the near-fatal consequences of a bitter spirit. 70+ years of hatred has nearly ruined this person's heart ... emotionally, spiritually, and physically.)
* * * * *
One very interesting thing about my weekly dinner dates with Daddy ... we disagreed on nearly every important issue. We couldn't have been further from each other in regards to matters of religion and politics. Yet, we were able to sit across from each other every week and say, "I believe ________." "Well, interesting, because I believe __________." To this very day, neither of us have convinced the other to change their positions (because that wasn't our intent). Yet we have fully loved and accepted each other, despite our differences.
My Daddy is the most liberal of liberal when it comes to politics. He proudly told my children a few years ago that, "Bill Clinton was the best president this country has ever had." We all listened and smiled. He knew we didn't agree, but he knew we weren't there to debate him either. My Daddy thinks same-sex marriage is fine. My Daddy thinks it's okay to ordain homosexual pastors. My Daddy believes every religion is equal. He knows that we don't agree; but he knows that we love and respect him more than anything.
My Daddy doesn't agree with our religious viewpoints either. He does not believe that the Bible is the inerrant Word of God. He believes it is a good book, written by good men. My Daddy doesn't believe in the Virgin Birth of Jesus Christ (this was one of our high school dinner-date discussions). He believes that Jesus was a good man that walked on this earth. But ... I love my Daddy and pray that my Daddy will spend eternity in heaven.
The funniest thing happened 8 years ago ... my Daddy got married after being single for 25 years, and he married "someone just like me" as my Daddy so laughingly tells everyone. His dear wife (and most of her 11 children and 42 grandchildren) is a conservative Christian. So, she completely disagrees with him on religion and politics. But ... she loves him dearly, and respects him fully.
Yes ... I learned from my Daddy ...
... how important an apology is.
... how important open, honest communication is.
... how to discuss our political and religious viewpoints with complete respect, even when our beliefs differ.
I hope and pray that my children are also learning these things from me. I hope that I can be half the amazing person that my Daddy is. I don't think he has a mean, bitter, ornery, bone in his body. He truly knows how to love everyone, and won't say a negative word against anyone. Thanks Daddy ... for being such an example to me.
One more thing ... being that I am in my mid-fourties, most people would expect my Daddy to be mid-sixties to early-seventies. However, my Daddy didn't get married and have children until he was in his fourties. When I was in high school (having my weekly date nights), my Daddy was already 65. Now ... Daddy is 90 and he continues to be a pillar and an example for me and my family. His heart is strong ... because he has protected it from the disease of anger and bitterness. I hope we can all learn a few things from my dear Daddy.
Thursday, November 6, 2008
Feeling A Little Beat Up
While I have really tried to keep my blog posts non-political, I did write a few sentences last week about the presidential candidates. And, I have made a couple of comments on others' blogs, sharing my position, when they have written political posts. But ... I have, seriously, worked VERY hard to say things in a non-confrontational and non-judgmental tone. (I have shared my feelings of the specific candidates, but have never said anything in judgement of those who might vote for the candidates.) However, somehow, my comments have been misconstrued. For this, I am truly sorry.
Here are 3 specific instances of things being taken out-of-context ... misinterpretations of where my heart was at.
Last week, in my post, What Does the Future Look Like for Our Children, I made the comment ...
"With the election only days away, people are running scared. What will happen to America if a Socialist Muslim is elected to run our country? Not that Mr. McCain is Mr. Perfect either. But ... changes are coming. Can they possibly be good?"
Calling Mr. Obama a "Socialist Muslim" was not a name-calling flippant comment. From the research that I have done, I absolutely believe that he is both a Socialist and a Muslim. I believe both of those things, and I am concerned that such a person is going to be President of our country. However, this comment was not in any way made to incite anger. It was meant to say, "Hey ... I'm concerned."
Later that day, the following was posted on a blog that I have never even visited before. And, the following day, it was copied onto a blog that I visit regularly.
If/when he wins, you can ... decide that our faithless, Godless country that's run by a "Socialist Muslim" is doomed, or you can be the superior, epitome of morality that you claim to be and SUCK IT UP AND HELP.
"The superior, epitome of morality that you claim to be." What ???? Where did that come from?
* * * * *
Then ...
Story removed at blog author's request ...
* * * * *
Therefore ... I was deeply saddened today when I discovered that yet another fellow blogger had misheard my intent.
her political blog post ended with ...
I truly believe that this election will be one I will remember as old lady, sitting on my porch rocking a groove in the floor while I sip my lemonade. I am glad to have been a part of it and eagerly await the result of tonight's election!
to which I responded ...
I sure hope that we do not remember tonight's historic election as ... the night that God's favor was removed from America. Got to politely disagree with you here ... and say that the next 4 years seriously scares me. I believe that the U.S. is on a very slippery slope, and headed downhill quickly.
yesterday she wrote another post, which said, in part, ....
I just got a comment that I really thought was inappropriate on another post .... it is very difficult for me to stomach comments that allude to my not being Christian because I voted for a democrat. I realize that MANY people truly do believe that, but I do not and if my comments don't bring up religion, I am not inviting finger-shaking or accusations that our new President has condemned our country in God's eyes.
Again ... I stated my opinion of Mr. Obama ... I did not intend to "allude to (her) not being Christian". Nor did I intend to "finger-shake and accuse".
As a matter of fact ... my dear husband told me today that he had voted for a few democrats. No big deal. Yes ... my hubby loves the Lord, and he voted for some democrats. I have never in any way intended to imply that those who vote for Mr. Obama are in anyway not following the Lord.
Personally, I do not agree with Mr. Obama's ...
... views on abortion.
... plans for universal health care (I am aware of too many serious situations with Canada's healthcare system.)
... views on public education (specifically the banning of educational vouchers)
... plans for the military (I believe a quick withdrawal of troops from Iraq could cause serious consequences for millions of innocent Iraqis ... my eldest son spent 2 1/2 years serving in Iraq, so I have some understanding of our military and the good work they are doing there)
... plans for increased taxes for the wealthy, to share with the poor
Therefore, I am certainly not one of the Christians that has made this a "one issue" vote. Across the board, I am concerned.
I am also not one that will vote only for what might be best for my family ...
... Our family could greatly benefit from Universal Healthcare ... I don't like paying the high premiums we must pay monthly, in addition to the large co-pays and deductibles.
... Our family could probably benefit from taxing the rich to share with the poor ... we now fit the definition of financially "underprivileged".
... Our family won't benefit from educational vouchers, so it doesn't matter to us personally if they are withdrawn.
... My son is now out of the military, so this doesn't personally affect us, either.
But ... I did not vote for Obama because I truly believe that these are not the best policies for the great country that we live in.
I am not only concerned about these specific political viewpoints, but I am very concerned about his ...
... Lack of political experience compared to McCain.
... Friendly connections with known terrorists.
... Evasiveness and Deceit (regarding his refusal to prove his natural citizenship by providing a certified copy of his Hawaiian birth certificate, to prove that he is even eligible to run for the office of the President of the United States).
So ... now ... after the election I have written the political blog post that I didn't want to write. I am not wanting to start debates or controversy. However, since my words seem to have been so misconstrued this past week, I think it best to get my honest beliefs "out there".
I do not want to be lumped in with the "radical right-wing ultra-conservatives" who seem to be bashing everyone that believes differently than they do. I however, do not appreciate being bashed myself, by the "liberal left" because my beliefs don't match up with theirs. And ... to be honest ... I hate the labels all together.
The very saddest thing that I see, is that I think that each of these bloggers are Christians (not sure about the one blog I'd never even read before, that quoted me). Why, oh why, are we fighting each other? Why aren't we working together to make this great country even greater? Why are we attacking each other? Why can't we set aside our differences and stop the name-calling?
I want to apologize, again, if I made any comments on your blogs that offended you. I truly am sorry! I so appreciate this blogging world, and have found such encouragement and insights from all of my "blogging sisters", that I don't want politics to become a divisive issue.
I'm ready to move on ... how about you?
Here are 3 specific instances of things being taken out-of-context ... misinterpretations of where my heart was at.
Last week, in my post, What Does the Future Look Like for Our Children, I made the comment ...
"With the election only days away, people are running scared. What will happen to America if a Socialist Muslim is elected to run our country? Not that Mr. McCain is Mr. Perfect either. But ... changes are coming. Can they possibly be good?"
Calling Mr. Obama a "Socialist Muslim" was not a name-calling flippant comment. From the research that I have done, I absolutely believe that he is both a Socialist and a Muslim. I believe both of those things, and I am concerned that such a person is going to be President of our country. However, this comment was not in any way made to incite anger. It was meant to say, "Hey ... I'm concerned."
Later that day, the following was posted on a blog that I have never even visited before. And, the following day, it was copied onto a blog that I visit regularly.
If/when he wins, you can ... decide that our faithless, Godless country that's run by a "Socialist Muslim" is doomed, or you can be the superior, epitome of morality that you claim to be and SUCK IT UP AND HELP.
"The superior, epitome of morality that you claim to be." What ???? Where did that come from?
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Then ...
Story removed at blog author's request ...
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Therefore ... I was deeply saddened today when I discovered that yet another fellow blogger had misheard my intent.
her political blog post ended with ...
I truly believe that this election will be one I will remember as old lady, sitting on my porch rocking a groove in the floor while I sip my lemonade. I am glad to have been a part of it and eagerly await the result of tonight's election!
to which I responded ...
I sure hope that we do not remember tonight's historic election as ... the night that God's favor was removed from America. Got to politely disagree with you here ... and say that the next 4 years seriously scares me. I believe that the U.S. is on a very slippery slope, and headed downhill quickly.
yesterday she wrote another post, which said, in part, ....
I just got a comment that I really thought was inappropriate on another post .... it is very difficult for me to stomach comments that allude to my not being Christian because I voted for a democrat. I realize that MANY people truly do believe that, but I do not and if my comments don't bring up religion, I am not inviting finger-shaking or accusations that our new President has condemned our country in God's eyes.
Again ... I stated my opinion of Mr. Obama ... I did not intend to "allude to (her) not being Christian". Nor did I intend to "finger-shake and accuse".
As a matter of fact ... my dear husband told me today that he had voted for a few democrats. No big deal. Yes ... my hubby loves the Lord, and he voted for some democrats. I have never in any way intended to imply that those who vote for Mr. Obama are in anyway not following the Lord.
Personally, I do not agree with Mr. Obama's ...
... views on abortion.
... plans for universal health care (I am aware of too many serious situations with Canada's healthcare system.)
... views on public education (specifically the banning of educational vouchers)
... plans for the military (I believe a quick withdrawal of troops from Iraq could cause serious consequences for millions of innocent Iraqis ... my eldest son spent 2 1/2 years serving in Iraq, so I have some understanding of our military and the good work they are doing there)
... plans for increased taxes for the wealthy, to share with the poor
Therefore, I am certainly not one of the Christians that has made this a "one issue" vote. Across the board, I am concerned.
I am also not one that will vote only for what might be best for my family ...
... Our family could greatly benefit from Universal Healthcare ... I don't like paying the high premiums we must pay monthly, in addition to the large co-pays and deductibles.
... Our family could probably benefit from taxing the rich to share with the poor ... we now fit the definition of financially "underprivileged".
... Our family won't benefit from educational vouchers, so it doesn't matter to us personally if they are withdrawn.
... My son is now out of the military, so this doesn't personally affect us, either.
But ... I did not vote for Obama because I truly believe that these are not the best policies for the great country that we live in.
I am not only concerned about these specific political viewpoints, but I am very concerned about his ...
... Lack of political experience compared to McCain.
... Friendly connections with known terrorists.
... Evasiveness and Deceit (regarding his refusal to prove his natural citizenship by providing a certified copy of his Hawaiian birth certificate, to prove that he is even eligible to run for the office of the President of the United States).
So ... now ... after the election I have written the political blog post that I didn't want to write. I am not wanting to start debates or controversy. However, since my words seem to have been so misconstrued this past week, I think it best to get my honest beliefs "out there".
I do not want to be lumped in with the "radical right-wing ultra-conservatives" who seem to be bashing everyone that believes differently than they do. I however, do not appreciate being bashed myself, by the "liberal left" because my beliefs don't match up with theirs. And ... to be honest ... I hate the labels all together.
The very saddest thing that I see, is that I think that each of these bloggers are Christians (not sure about the one blog I'd never even read before, that quoted me). Why, oh why, are we fighting each other? Why aren't we working together to make this great country even greater? Why are we attacking each other? Why can't we set aside our differences and stop the name-calling?
I want to apologize, again, if I made any comments on your blogs that offended you. I truly am sorry! I so appreciate this blogging world, and have found such encouragement and insights from all of my "blogging sisters", that I don't want politics to become a divisive issue.
I'm ready to move on ... how about you?
Absolute Moral Truth
More thoughts from Jeremiah ...
I love A.W. Tozer ... because his writing speaks to the most urgent issues of life with such clarity and truth. One that I read this morning shocked me in that it was written decades ago but has as much penatrating conviciton today as it surely did then. Tozer was writing about the powerless church and its acceptance of a powerless gospel, one which is all fluff, religion, and "fire insurance" without a change in the penitent sinner...(read more in "God's Pursuit of Man")... but anyways, it stuck me that America's choice for it's next President (and the margin by which it is decided) will be very indicative of the moral character of the people and the efficassy (or lack thereof) with which the American church has fullfilled Christ's command to be "salt and light" in a dark and decaying world. I am sombered by the fact that indeed, America will get no worse than the leader it deserves. Before this train of thought is further derailed, here is what I read by Tozer that set this train on its way:
"Perversion is the price we pay for failure to emphasize the moral content of the Truth; it is the curse that follows rational orthodoxy when it has quenched or rejected the Spirit of Truth."
Yup, the American church has pretty much dropped the ball on emphasizing absolute moral Truth in a depraved culture. No wonder Arab Muslims are disgusted by the West, and unimpressed with "christianity." They see nothing but decadence, lust, depravity, and a total lack of a culturally relevant moral compass. Not that Muslims don't sin in these same ways...au contraire... their perception of sin is defined by whether or not the sin is seen/known by a friend/relative/authority....absent that, the action is not sin....since America seems to revel in its debauchary and the church does nothing, to a Muslim the American christian church is powerless. In that regard, they're pretty much spot on....
So, it sounds like it is very difficult to witness to Muslims due to the fact that they mock the American version of Christianity. How this must grieve Our Father's heart!
I love A.W. Tozer ... because his writing speaks to the most urgent issues of life with such clarity and truth. One that I read this morning shocked me in that it was written decades ago but has as much penatrating conviciton today as it surely did then. Tozer was writing about the powerless church and its acceptance of a powerless gospel, one which is all fluff, religion, and "fire insurance" without a change in the penitent sinner...(read more in "God's Pursuit of Man")... but anyways, it stuck me that America's choice for it's next President (and the margin by which it is decided) will be very indicative of the moral character of the people and the efficassy (or lack thereof) with which the American church has fullfilled Christ's command to be "salt and light" in a dark and decaying world. I am sombered by the fact that indeed, America will get no worse than the leader it deserves. Before this train of thought is further derailed, here is what I read by Tozer that set this train on its way:
"Perversion is the price we pay for failure to emphasize the moral content of the Truth; it is the curse that follows rational orthodoxy when it has quenched or rejected the Spirit of Truth."
Yup, the American church has pretty much dropped the ball on emphasizing absolute moral Truth in a depraved culture. No wonder Arab Muslims are disgusted by the West, and unimpressed with "christianity." They see nothing but decadence, lust, depravity, and a total lack of a culturally relevant moral compass. Not that Muslims don't sin in these same ways...au contraire... their perception of sin is defined by whether or not the sin is seen/known by a friend/relative/authority....absent that, the action is not sin....since America seems to revel in its debauchary and the church does nothing, to a Muslim the American christian church is powerless. In that regard, they're pretty much spot on....
So, it sounds like it is very difficult to witness to Muslims due to the fact that they mock the American version of Christianity. How this must grieve Our Father's heart!
The Culture of Christianity
Here is a Guest Post from Jeremiah in Jordan.
I heard a Jordanian man give a lecture today on Arab-Christian culture. He had an interesting perspective, part of which I thought I'd share it with you all. Here is what he said:
"It is often difficult for the church in the West to remember that Christianity started in the Middle East as a relationship; it moved to Europe and became an organization [Catholicism]; it moved to America and became a business; it moved to Africa and became music. Unless we remember and understand that the culture of Christianity was and is meant to be based on relationships, the Middle East will remain gripped by Islam. Christianity will remain as foreign as the cultures bringing it."
I heard a Jordanian man give a lecture today on Arab-Christian culture. He had an interesting perspective, part of which I thought I'd share it with you all. Here is what he said:
"It is often difficult for the church in the West to remember that Christianity started in the Middle East as a relationship; it moved to Europe and became an organization [Catholicism]; it moved to America and became a business; it moved to Africa and became music. Unless we remember and understand that the culture of Christianity was and is meant to be based on relationships, the Middle East will remain gripped by Islam. Christianity will remain as foreign as the cultures bringing it."
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
God is Still in Control
Despite the results of tonight's election ...
Pam had this to say ...
NO MATTER WHO WINS THE ELECTION...
1. The Bible will still have all the answers.
2. Prayer will still work.
3. The Holy Spirit will still move.
4. God will still inhabit the praises of His people.
5. There will still be God-anointed teaching and preaching.
6. There will still be singing of praise to God.
7. God will still pour out blessings upon His people.
8. There will still be room at the Cross.
9. Jesus will still love His own.
10. Jesus will still save the lost.
ISN'T IT GREAT TO KNOW???
WHO IS REALLY IN CONTROL!!!
God Bless America!
Pam had this to say ...
NO MATTER WHO WINS THE ELECTION...
1. The Bible will still have all the answers.
2. Prayer will still work.
3. The Holy Spirit will still move.
4. God will still inhabit the praises of His people.
5. There will still be God-anointed teaching and preaching.
6. There will still be singing of praise to God.
7. God will still pour out blessings upon His people.
8. There will still be room at the Cross.
9. Jesus will still love His own.
10. Jesus will still save the lost.
ISN'T IT GREAT TO KNOW???
WHO IS REALLY IN CONTROL!!!
God Bless America!
Spontaneous "I Love You"s
It's so sweet when children save, "I Love You!", for no apparent reason. Elijah actually does this probably 20 times per day. He is a snuggly, cuddly, "I love you" kind of guy. (Won't his wife be blessed!)
While Jacob, Sarah, and Rachel definitely say, "I love you", it obviously hasn't always come quite as spontaneously and often as Elijah. This week, however, both Rachel and Sarah made an extra effort to let us know how much they love us.
A few days ago, Sarah wrote Papa and I the sweetest letters. Here are a few excerpts:
Dear Mother and Father
I love you soooooooo much and my brothers and sisters. You are so nice to me, and you teach me how to know God by taking me to Church and telling me about him. Thank you for letting me going breakout (church missions group) and thank you dad for taking me to Bible-Study every mondays.
Dad you are a great math teacher. I hope you will teach maney children about math. And I want to thank you for helping me yesterday with my math.
You are nice parents. And thanks mom and dad that you let me go to Cassie's a long time ago. I hope you'll enjoy these letters.
a 2nd letter said ...
To Mom, Dad and brothers and sisters.
Thank you for being nice to me, I am happy about that especially mom and dad, you take care of me very well and you give me enough to eat. And I am really happy about that. And you love me very much too. I love you all and mom and dad I want to thank you for helping me with anythings when I don't know it. And I want to thank you for all you have done for me, and thank you for teaching me about God, and thank you for adopting me, Jacob and Rachel. God bless you for all you have done for us.
love Sarah D.
And, yesterday, Rachel gave us a little spontaneous lovin' by drawing each of us a picture with a big "I love you." across the top.
I was writing an article yesterday about our adoption, and I seriously couldn't even think of all the "transition" issues that we dealt with the first 3-4 months after the kids were home. We still, obviously, deal with "brother and sister issues", but have very few "adoption issues". Praise God!
While Jacob, Sarah, and Rachel definitely say, "I love you", it obviously hasn't always come quite as spontaneously and often as Elijah. This week, however, both Rachel and Sarah made an extra effort to let us know how much they love us.
A few days ago, Sarah wrote Papa and I the sweetest letters. Here are a few excerpts:
Dear Mother and Father
I love you soooooooo much and my brothers and sisters. You are so nice to me, and you teach me how to know God by taking me to Church and telling me about him. Thank you for letting me going breakout (church missions group) and thank you dad for taking me to Bible-Study every mondays.
Dad you are a great math teacher. I hope you will teach maney children about math. And I want to thank you for helping me yesterday with my math.
You are nice parents. And thanks mom and dad that you let me go to Cassie's a long time ago. I hope you'll enjoy these letters.
a 2nd letter said ...
To Mom, Dad and brothers and sisters.
Thank you for being nice to me, I am happy about that especially mom and dad, you take care of me very well and you give me enough to eat. And I am really happy about that. And you love me very much too. I love you all and mom and dad I want to thank you for helping me with anythings when I don't know it. And I want to thank you for all you have done for me, and thank you for teaching me about God, and thank you for adopting me, Jacob and Rachel. God bless you for all you have done for us.
love Sarah D.
And, yesterday, Rachel gave us a little spontaneous lovin' by drawing each of us a picture with a big "I love you." across the top.
I was writing an article yesterday about our adoption, and I seriously couldn't even think of all the "transition" issues that we dealt with the first 3-4 months after the kids were home. We still, obviously, deal with "brother and sister issues", but have very few "adoption issues". Praise God!
Pure Silliness!!!
So, you might ask, what does the Crazy D. Family do for fun?
A couple of weeks ago, dear Gregg introduced us to www.yearbookyourself.com . This is a website filled with yearbook pictures from 1950 - 2000. You can take one of your own pictures and place it into a pre-designed faceless yearbook photo. Here are a few of the results ...
This is what Papa would have looked like as a recent college grad. in 1956.
This is what Papa would have looked like as a college grad. in 1990.
This is what Mama would have looked like as a college grad. in 1994.
(Sorry ... but I had a friend with hair exactly like this in 1980, not 1994.)
This is what Jacob would have looked like as a college grad. in 1974.
This is what Sarah would have looked like as a college grad. in 1978.
Pure silliness, I know. But, it sure brought the laughter at our house, on a rainy fall day.
A couple of weeks ago, dear Gregg introduced us to www.yearbookyourself.com . This is a website filled with yearbook pictures from 1950 - 2000. You can take one of your own pictures and place it into a pre-designed faceless yearbook photo. Here are a few of the results ...
This is what Papa would have looked like as a recent college grad. in 1956.
This is what Papa would have looked like as a college grad. in 1990.
This is what Mama would have looked like as a college grad. in 1994.
(Sorry ... but I had a friend with hair exactly like this in 1980, not 1994.)
This is what Jacob would have looked like as a college grad. in 1974.
This is what Sarah would have looked like as a college grad. in 1978.
Pure silliness, I know. But, it sure brought the laughter at our house, on a rainy fall day.
Monday, November 3, 2008
Serious Life Magazine
Brent Riggs has published an online magazine that I am really excited about. I want to encourage you to take a look at Serious Life Magazine today. The 2nd issue was just published. While I haven't read all of the articles yet, it looks great.
When you visit the Serious Life Magazine web page, you can either download this issue to your desktop, or you can visit the online "flip page" version (which is really cool!). I don't know about you, but this whole online magazine thing is completely new to me. This is not a little newsletter ... this is a full-fledge magazine, published monthly online.
Not only can you check out the current issue today, but you can get a FREE subscription. Every month, you will receive an email, telling you that the new magazine has been published. It's that easy.
In two weeks, Brent will be publishing the first issue of Serious Adoption Magazine. And, he has one or two other magazines in the works also. God is really doing some great things through Brent's Ministry.
I was hoping to have an article in this month's publication, but have been battling a horrible cold/bronchitis for over a week and a half, and have not been able to focus on my writing. Hopefully next month. I am looking forward to working with Brent, as the Lord is definitely leading us down similar paths at the same time.
Sunday, November 2, 2008
What's Cooking Contest Results ... Coming Soon ...
Papa gave me his receipts tonight. Tomorrow ... I will total all of our October spending, for food and for each of our other budget areas.
While I don't have all of the calculations done yet, we did spend about $400-$600 less this month (on everything) than our usual monthly output. Yea! That means less money drawn from savings each month. This month, we'll shoot for an even bigger savings, in every area.
One budget buster ... I found out today that our re-adoption this month will cost us about $600-800. We had not planned this in our budget. Not fun!
Stay tuned ... for the winner of the upcoming NEW EDITION of my What's Cooking book.
While I don't have all of the calculations done yet, we did spend about $400-$600 less this month (on everything) than our usual monthly output. Yea! That means less money drawn from savings each month. This month, we'll shoot for an even bigger savings, in every area.
One budget buster ... I found out today that our re-adoption this month will cost us about $600-800. We had not planned this in our budget. Not fun!
Stay tuned ... for the winner of the upcoming NEW EDITION of my What's Cooking book.
Friends Needing Prayer
Sometimes blogging friends become more than just ... well ... "blogging friends". In the past few months, while I haven't yet met them, I feel that I have gotten to know Brent & Michelle very well, through emails in addition to their family blog and Brent's Ministry.
The Riggs Family has been walking through Leukemia with their precious little Abby for the past 4 months, and yesterday was a very difficult day.
Please visit their Family Blog, and say some prayers for this wonderful family. I have been leaving their blog page open in a window on my desktop, so that I am continually reminded of the need to pray.
Three years ago, I was the parent, sitting in ICU at Children's Hospital, not knowing if my 3 year old son was going to live or die. I truly understand what Brent and Michelle are walking through. God, in His great mercy, brought healing to our little Elijah. I am praying that He will bring complete healing to precious Abby, too.
Please join me in praying for a miracle today.
Saturday, November 1, 2008
On the Road Again ...
I can't believe I haven't written a blog post since Wed., and it's already midnight on Friday. Oh dear! Where have I been the last 2 days? On the road ...
Yesterday (after only 5 hours of sleep) I hit the road at 9:00 a.m. and arrived in Bend, OR at 5:30 p.m. Today (after another night of less than 5 hours of sleep) I hit the road in Bend at 9:00 a.m. and arrived home at 6:30. (The one hour delay today was the fact that I hit Seattle at peak rush hour. Yuck!) So, I covered 900+ miles in 2 days, and came home exhausted. Why am I up, then? I went to bed at 7 pm, read until 8 pm, slept until a little one woke me up at 9:15 pm, lay in bed until 10 pm, and decided to get back up for a couple of hours. Now, it's almost time to head back to bed; since I have to hit the road again tomorrow at 8:30 a.m. for another long day.
Why on earth did I go to Bend for a 15 hour visit? I took all the seats out of my big van and used it as a moving van. I did the same 2 day move a year and a half ago when Cassie moved to Bend. But ... no ... I did not go down this week to bring Cassie home. Sad! I went to Bend this time to move Miss Heidi to Washington. (Did you notice she was added to our new family pics at the top of the blog?) Yes, Gregg's lovely lady has moved to town. Yea!!! And ... as an extra benefit, I had a wonderful dinner with Cassie (and my two traveling buddies), after which we stayed up until midnight eating Turtle Cheesecake and visiting. Always much fun to spend time with her, even if just for a few hours.
And, for this wonderful 2 days of driving, I did take along a couple of my young ones to keep me company. Gregg rode with us yesterday, in order to drive Heidi's car back "home". So, today I had a lovely day with Hosanna and Elijah. Little E. is an amazing traveler at such a young age. He kept thanking me for taking him on the trip. Thanking me for 18 hours in his car seat in 2 days??? Cool kid! And, this is his 5th Oregon trip in the past 7 months. He sure loves to visit his big sister, Cassie. He actually now knows how to count the towns along highway #97 (after we go over Mt. Hood on #26), so that he will know when we are close to Bend. And, he gave me directions to Heidi's house, since I hadn't been there before.
Oh yes ... we head back to Oregon in 2 1/2 weeks, but not quite as far as Bend. We are definitely a traveling family! I'm sure glad our gas prices have dropped in the past couple of months.
Yesterday (after only 5 hours of sleep) I hit the road at 9:00 a.m. and arrived in Bend, OR at 5:30 p.m. Today (after another night of less than 5 hours of sleep) I hit the road in Bend at 9:00 a.m. and arrived home at 6:30. (The one hour delay today was the fact that I hit Seattle at peak rush hour. Yuck!) So, I covered 900+ miles in 2 days, and came home exhausted. Why am I up, then? I went to bed at 7 pm, read until 8 pm, slept until a little one woke me up at 9:15 pm, lay in bed until 10 pm, and decided to get back up for a couple of hours. Now, it's almost time to head back to bed; since I have to hit the road again tomorrow at 8:30 a.m. for another long day.
Why on earth did I go to Bend for a 15 hour visit? I took all the seats out of my big van and used it as a moving van. I did the same 2 day move a year and a half ago when Cassie moved to Bend. But ... no ... I did not go down this week to bring Cassie home. Sad! I went to Bend this time to move Miss Heidi to Washington. (Did you notice she was added to our new family pics at the top of the blog?) Yes, Gregg's lovely lady has moved to town. Yea!!! And ... as an extra benefit, I had a wonderful dinner with Cassie (and my two traveling buddies), after which we stayed up until midnight eating Turtle Cheesecake and visiting. Always much fun to spend time with her, even if just for a few hours.
And, for this wonderful 2 days of driving, I did take along a couple of my young ones to keep me company. Gregg rode with us yesterday, in order to drive Heidi's car back "home". So, today I had a lovely day with Hosanna and Elijah. Little E. is an amazing traveler at such a young age. He kept thanking me for taking him on the trip. Thanking me for 18 hours in his car seat in 2 days??? Cool kid! And, this is his 5th Oregon trip in the past 7 months. He sure loves to visit his big sister, Cassie. He actually now knows how to count the towns along highway #97 (after we go over Mt. Hood on #26), so that he will know when we are close to Bend. And, he gave me directions to Heidi's house, since I hadn't been there before.
Oh yes ... we head back to Oregon in 2 1/2 weeks, but not quite as far as Bend. We are definitely a traveling family! I'm sure glad our gas prices have dropped in the past couple of months.
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