Papa and I have been going to a Christian Counselor in order to work through our Marriage Crisis. We are not trying to "do it on our own". We are acknowledging that we need help; and we are actively seeking out the help that we need.
I would encourage any of you that are walking through a Crisis ... sitting in a Mud Puddle ... traveling through a Dark Tunnel ... to find a professional Christian Counselor to help you on your journey.
It is nothing to be ashamed of ... nothing to fear. While God is THE amazing Healer, I believe that He also equips men and women to help others through the healing process. Just as most of us would not be "too godly" to go to a medical doctor when we need medical assistance; we, too, need not feel that we are any less godly if we seek help from a mental health professional when our mental health needs a little fixing.
Papa and I are not going to just "put on a bandaid". We are not going to get "plastic surgery" to cover up the scars. No. We are working to clean out any of the underlying infection and scar tissue that may have resulted from the